Telling those closest to you that you are unexpectedly pregnant has to be one of the hardest discussions you’ll have. You may be tempted to avoid sharing the news, knowing they’ll be shocked, angry, or even disappointed. However, the sooner you talk with them, the better.
Here are a few steps you can take to make the conversation go a little smoother.
Start By Confirming Your Pregnancy
It’s one thing to have a late period or a positive pregnancy test, but there’s so much more to know about your pregnancy. Experts estimate that as many as 26% of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage. That’s more than one in four pregnancies!
Because it’s possible to get a positive pregnancy test days or weeks following a miscarriage, consider confirming your pregnancy first before talking with your family and maybe even your boyfriend. How do you confirm a pregnancy? Start by visiting Coweta Pregnancy Services.
We offer free medically certified pregnancy testing. We’ll administer the test so you can be confident you’re getting accurate results.
If your test is positive, we can schedule a no-cost limited obstetrical ultrasound for you. An ultrasound reveals if your pregnancy is developing or if you’ve miscarried. You’ll also learn how far along you are and if the pregnancy’s location is safe.
Once you confirm your pregnancy, you can begin telling others.
How to Tell Your Boyfriend and Family
The status of your relationships has a lot to do with how you talk to your boyfriend and family. Since your boyfriend is the father, you may want to discuss it with him first.
No matter whether you’re in a serious or casual relationship, it’s important to get your boyfriend’s input. However, don’t let him threaten or manipulate you into making one decision over another. How you handle your pregnancy is your choice.
We tackled the question of telling your parents last summer. Read “How Do I Tell My Parents I’m Pregnant?” Choose a trusted family member first and begin there. Have them stay with you as you talk with others.
There is no perfect way or time to share the news, but try to choose a time when everyone is relaxed and not rushing out the door. Be straightforward and honest. Then, give everyone time to absorb the news.
If you are concerned for your safety, don’t talk with anyone alone. Choose a public place and be prepared for an emotional response.
Getting Help From Coweta Pregnancy Services
We provide all of our pregnancy services at no cost. Let us confirm your pregnancy through testing and an ultrasound, and then our advocates can discuss the options available to you moving forward.
If you’d like some advice on how to break the news, we can help you with that, too. You can conveniently schedule an appointment online or call us at (770) 251-7158. We’re here for you.